Sincere Relationships: Pet Peeves

"They only take what they can get before they snuff you, mother should've told you..."

I really dislike the fact that it took disappointment to push me to post a blog. I usually like to spread positivity on this blog but right now I just want to do a quick rant since I do not want to pollute my twitter with blasts and subliminal messages(this applies to too many for tagging purposes). This just might hurt some people's feelings. At this point it needs to be said.

• PET PEEVE #1: I cannot stand one-sided friendships/relationships. For example, when people that you haven't spoken to in days decided to contact you like, "Hey how are you? Can you do me a biiiiig favor????" It's like damn you could've at least broke out the lube before attempting to screw me over. Of course I refuse to let this happen to me anymore but it's happening to someone close to me and it frustrates me that it gets played in to.
• PET PEEVE #2: When a "friend" texts you and asked a random but personal question without so much as a greeting. "Did you get _______ already?" It took two more messages to actually get a "Hey, how are you?" Pathetic.
  
• PET PEEVE #3: When people hide something from you because it's "protecting your feelings" in my opinion hiding things is much worse than just coming out an saying it because it's called being sneaky. You're only trying to protect yourself from getting reacted on.
  
• PET PEEVE #4: When people try to state what they won't do but have "exceptions" because they plan on doing those "exceptions" in the near future. NO BUDDY! YOU ARE NOT EXEMPT! It still counts as being apart of what you say you won't do. Very contradicting.
  
• PET PEEVE #5: When "friends" cannot utilize their resources. Oh you can have Tom, Dick, and Harry over your place for dinner and drinks but you can't ask them for favors. But instead, poor Joe down the street gets to do EVERYTHING for you at your beck and call. And the fact that Joe does these favors only continues the behavior. You were doing so good Joe! Damn!
• PET PEEVE #6: Sucking up when it's convenient and those who allow it to happen because it's all they have going on for them. It you know someone has done you wrong, why continue to mess with them. And when they suck up to you at those random and suspicious times, does it make you feel better about yourself? It's time to reevaluate the relationships you keep and the reason why your keep them.
• PET PEEVE #7: Now this one's personal. Feeling "stuck". The situation is not what I want but it is being tolerated by both parties. My feelings are tied deep but I feel like in a way I'm being led on. I want more again but I don't know when that will ever happen again. I just feel so topsy-turvy about it all. The answer will come soon, I just know it.
  

I've been trying to keep to myself lately but these past couple of weeks I have been displayed nothing but fakes, lollies, and facades that people use to cover up the ugly truth. To be frank, I am very sick of the buffoonery and the people that are currently displaying it. I've been through situations that have involved ALL of the items listed above and I refuse to allow them to intrude upon my well-being and peace of mind anymore. I've been disappointed in myself for even letting things irk me but it's all apart of letting go of those things and growing up. Some thing/people/situations I need to just rid in its entirety because I'm tired of the bullpucky. I can't expect everyone to do this too but it is highly suggested.

Stay blessed my people.

This song pretty much sums up how I'm feeling right now: